Hey guys, been a while since I posted last but basically I would like to incorporate this blog into having an advice column so if you guys have any questions you need answers to or if you need an opinion on something, I’m your girl! THANKS AND LOVE YOU ALL:)))))


Beautiful Poem

Hey y’all this is not by me but I thought it was gorgeous and it really made me think!

What if your silent desperate tears were really a quality of the strong?

What if making some mistakes showed you could do no wrong?

What if the sorrowful lose of one was actually a gain?

What is hardships only existed to lessen the excruciating pain?

What if heartbreak gave you a second chance to find the ultimate best?

What if not obtaining everything showed you were greatly blessed?

What if raindrops really meant a priceless day in the sun?

What if something ending showed something else has begun?

What if falling down was the first step in being able to stand?

What if getting confused was actually helping you understand?

And what if every impossible deed could actually come true?

For what if every day you were missing the miracles that pass by you?



Thanks for reading guys! I hope you enjoyed!

Love ya,

Blog bud ๐Ÿ™‚

When the Going Gets Tough

Hey friends I know I haven’t posted in a while but I’ve been super busy with school! Only 3 more weeks!!

So what i wanted to talk to you guys about today is going through hard times. I know it is not something that many people like to talk about because many people like to put on a fake face and convince themselves and the world that they have the best life ever. But, in reality, no one is perfect and nothing has ever gone perfect for anybody.

So I have some words of encouragement for anybody who is going through any type of trouble, whether it be in relationships, family life, the economy, friends, or anything. What you must know is that you cannot control everything in your life but you can control your reaction. You control every part of yourself!

Whatever is happening in your life, I want you to tell yourself, No matter how things turn out around me, I WILL BE OKAY. I will still be ME and I will be ME for the rest of my time on this earth

I hope i helped anybody who is struggling and BTW I still am waiting for any questions you guys may need advice about so I can start posting some posts to help people out.

email: blondeshowstopper@gmail.com

Thanks for reading guys,

bloggy bud

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Hello my beauties!

Hope you have a great day today! I wanted to blog really quick because I would like to start giving some advice on my blog(along with random posts like I’ve been doing)maybe one day a week or so…

I’ve always considered myself one to give good advice, and a lot of times I am the one friends come to when they need help, advice, or are having trouble!

So, if you would like to submit a question to me I would LOVE to answer it.

It will be COMPLETELY anonymous if you wish:just email me at:


and your question could be answered!!

Thanks, fierce and love,

your blog advice giving friend:)

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