When the Going Gets Tough

Hey friends I know I haven’t posted in a while but I’ve been super busy with school! Only 3 more weeks!!

So what i wanted to talk to you guys about today is going through hard times. I know it is not something that many people like to talk about because many people like to put on a fake face and convince themselves and the world that they have the best life ever. But, in reality, no one is perfect and nothing has ever gone perfect for anybody.

So I have some words of encouragement for anybody who is going through any type of trouble, whether it be in relationships, family life, the economy, friends, or anything. What you must know is that you cannot control everything in your life but you can control your reaction. You control every part of yourself!

Whatever is happening in your life, I want you to tell yourself, No matter how things turn out around me, I WILL BE OKAY. I will still be ME and I will be ME for the rest of my time on this earth

I hope i helped anybody who is struggling and BTW I still am waiting for any questions you guys may need advice about so I can start posting some posts to help people out.

email: blondeshowstopper@gmail.com

Thanks for reading guys,

bloggy bud

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ADVICE for YOU

Hello my beauties!

Hope you have a great day today! I wanted to blog really quick because I would like to start giving some advice on my blog(along with random posts like I’ve been doing)maybe one day a week or so…

I’ve always considered myself one to give good advice, and a lot of times I am the one friends come to when they need help, advice, or are having trouble!

So, if you would like to submit a question to me I would LOVE to answer it.

It will be COMPLETELY anonymous if you wish:just email me at:

blondeshowstopper@gmail.com

and your question could be answered!!

Thanks, fierce and love,

your blog advice giving friend:)

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Dear blank please blank….

Hi friends,

i was on this website called dearblankpleaseblank, and I wanted to share with you some of my favorites that made me laugh!

1.Dear overweight people,

Do double chins run in your family?

Sincerely, oh wait, nothing runs in your family.

2.

Dear Boyfriend,

I can make your girlfriend scream louder than you can.

Sincerely, Spiders

3.

Dear Brain,

Why do you always play a random song in my head while I’m taking a test?

Sincerely, failing my spanish quiz to the tune of “Hakuna Matata.”

4.

Dear groceries,

I don’t care if you weigh 3000 pounds. I don’t care if I break both wrists and forearms carrying all of you in.

Sincerely, I WILL NOT MAKE A SECOND TRIP.

5.Dear text message,

Oh, that sounds harsh.

Sincerely, I’ll just add an LOL to it.

HAHAHA I thought these were funny. Thanks so much for reading and if you have any dearblankpleaseblank that you like please post them below as a comment. Or if you want to just post whatever random thing you want, thats AWESOME because I love reading all of your comments!

love ya,

your bloggosphere awesome quirky friend buddy

 

 

Confidence is Attractive

Hey my bloggy friends! Today I wanted to talk about an issue that I see everyday in high school and that is CONFIDENCE…

I see all these girls everywhere who are gorgeous, but they are so self conscious about the way that they look. It hurts me to see such pretty girls and guys even too who are too scared to be themselves that they just float by and wish they were other people.

So today I have some advice…

1. If there is something that you don’t like about yourself, change it! The only thing stopping you is yourself.

2. If you gossip about others to make you look cooler, people don’t care if you have to latest snitch on everyone. It makes you look like you have no life and that you have nothing more interesting to talk about than other people and their shit.

3. Don’t EVER let anyone tell you that you are not good enough, not important, not special. Anyone that says you aren’t pretty is 1. self conscious and 2. probably jealous of you because of your looks or personality or niceness or because you have friends and they don’t because they are mean.

I could go on all day about the shit that people care about that doesn’t matter, but the message I want to help everyone out there with is that you are the best version of yourself…just the way you are!

If anyone things otherwise- FUCK THEM! you dont need their opinion to convince yourself that you are good enough.

YOU are YOU and that is NEVER gonna change so don’t try to be someone else….You will always be you so you might as well live it.

Always remember-

AN ORIGINAL IS WORTH MORE THAN A COPY

peace out my perfect wonderful viewers,

love always,

your internet, bloggosphere, awesome as fuck buddy:)