When the Going Gets Tough

Hey friends I know I haven’t posted in a while but I’ve been super busy with school! Only 3 more weeks!!

So what i wanted to talk to you guys about today is going through hard times. I know it is not something that many people like to talk about because many people like to put on a fake face and convince themselves and the world that they have the best life ever. But, in reality, no one is perfect and nothing has ever gone perfect for anybody.

So I have some words of encouragement for anybody who is going through any type of trouble, whether it be in relationships, family life, the economy, friends, or anything. What you must know is that you cannot control everything in your life but you can control your reaction. You control every part of yourself!

Whatever is happening in your life, I want you to tell yourself, No matter how things turn out around me, I WILL BE OKAY. I will still be ME and I will be ME for the rest of my time on this earth

I hope i helped anybody who is struggling and BTW I still am waiting for any questions you guys may need advice about so I can start posting some posts to help people out.

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Thanks for reading guys,

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Hello my beauties!

Hope you have a great day today! I wanted to blog really quick because I would like to start giving some advice on my blog(along with random posts like I’ve been doing)maybe one day a week or so…

I’ve always considered myself one to give good advice, and a lot of times I am the one friends come to when they need help, advice, or are having trouble!

So, if you would like to submit a question to me I would LOVE to answer it.

It will be COMPLETELY anonymous if you wish:just email me at:


and your question could be answered!!

Thanks, fierce and love,

your blog advice giving friend:)

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